Sleepless in Sharjah

Sharjah mosque

Photo Credit: Pjvandi

When I moved here, my biggest issue was not having anything to do. Literally. I had no family and absolutely no friends. In short, I knew no one apart from my husband and his family. Combine that with not being able to start my Masters for various reasons and you have a very messed up female on your hands.

Predictably, I was depressed – at 22. That’s wrong on so many levels that it’s not even funny. Thankfully, I had seen my mother deal with living alone and taking care of the family while my dad was away at sea. I started off reading which used to be a favourite past time at home. I read so much I totally turned myself off reading for months. Before it happened, I wouldn’t have believed it possible.

Next came watching movies. I got tired of them faster than you could say ‘What a waste of time!’ Only Grey’s Anatomy managed to survive my divorce from TV.

All this while I was blogging and reminiscing of my days back home where I’d been offered a job and was starting out with part time freelancing. That’s when the proverbial bulb went off in my head.

I should be writing professionally! Once that thought had occurred, it wouldn’t back off. I researched for almost two months, went back home, recuperated, came back a lot more grounded and started looking for freelance work.

In the beginning it was just about keeping myself busy in a strange and new land. Slowly it became a passion with a focus. I know writing, I’ve been doing it for years. I’m good at it. Most of all, there’s no limit to the things I can learn!

That in itself is the biggest pull for me. It has become a habit for me to be up late, writing. Something about the quiet house gets my fingers flying. Now that I’m freelancing and most of my clients are US based, it’s pretty apt that my night is their day.

Of course the downside is that I haven’t seen early morning in a while except for when I wake up for Fajr. And that’s all of ten minutes :P

Right now my life is insanely busy. Hard to imagine huh? From having absolutely nothing to do, to having so much to do that I’m up at 4 am having just completed a project and am now writing a blog post.

To be honest, this post is to record my sense of peace. I have made my place in this new land with my (new) people. I’ve made friends and I’ve found work. Missing my parents, old friends and city is part of the package.

Have you ever had to de-root from the place of your birth and establish new ones in a new country where you didn’t know anyone? How was your experience? How did you cope?

P.S: There’s a really nice picnic spot behind the mosque in the picture.

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Reflections of a 6 Week Old Driver in Dubai

Sheikh Zayed Road

Getting a driving license in Dubai is tougher than getting your MBA.

- Emirates Driving Intitute Instructor.

After getting my license 6 weeks ago, I’ve been, tentatively, let loose by my family on the roads of Dubai. My first drive was to my home from Ghurair centre, with my husband in the passenger seat, hanging on for his precious life – just in case. For the next few times, I drove on highways such as Dubai-Al-Ain Road, Dhaid Road etc. While my confidence grew with every long drive, I have yet to face extreme traffic. The kind that’s on Dubai-Sharjah road at 6 am.

From the little I have driven in Dubai, I’ve noticed a few things that seem to be taken for granted on the road.

1. If the car has an Abu Dhabi number plate, it’s expected that there will be reckless and attitude-ish driving involved and you’d be better off keeping a safe distance.

2. A four wheeler has the right of way even when it’s going the wrong way.

3. Seasoned drivers can sniff a new driver from miles away and will either avoid you or tail you before changing lanes. Unless you’re in a 4×4.

4. The left lane is for race car drivers – or those with lots of money to pay the fines.

5. Taxi drivers will give you the way if you’re a female driver. I think that is mostly because a lot of taxi drivers are Pakistani, and that’s how it’s done in Pakistan.

6. The above mentioned taxi driver will also keep a safe distance if he’s behind a female driver. This has more to do with lack of faith in your driving than courtesy.

I’m sure I’ll observe more and more things as the frequency of my driving increases. If you’re driving in Dubai, what kind of things have you noticed on the road?

Oh P.S! I drive a 4×4 ;)

Photo Credit: Dopesmulgar

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Literature Festival in Dubai

A man is known by the books he reads.

- Ralph Waldo Emerson

If there’s one thing in this world that should be free, it’s books. Moving here, one of my biggest complains was that books are so expensive here! And that there’s not enough literary awareness.

EAIFL is a welcome response to the former. Held from 26th February – 1st March at Dubai Festival City, the literature festival is host to authors and various workshops through out the four days as well as competitions. There’s also a Kids Zone where different activities such as story telling, puppet shows etc are held.

On the last day of the festival the authors would be visiting schools. So if your child is in a school and comes home saying there will be some book author visiting, encourage him or her to read their books and listen to what the author says.

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Drawbacks of Being a Freelancer in UAE

A freelancer is not bound by geographical locations. You can live underwater and you’re good to go as long as you have an internet connection and a computer. While finding work online has been fairly easy, I haven’t yet broken into the publishing industry in UAE.

Language Barrier

Part of the reason of why I haven’t yet gotten freelance work from this region is because I’m an expat and do not speak Arabic. Most people want bilingual (English and Arabic) freelancers and the few inquiries I’ve gotten are for Arabic writing. Which kind of sucks but it shows that if you want to freelance in the region, there’s work. You just have to know the language.

I do plan on breaking into print media by the middle of next year though, Insha’Allah. There are plenty of English newspapers and magazines.

Paypal

The most common method of payment for web content writing/designing is through PayPal. The bad news is that paypal does not have withdrawal options for UAE. It only gives you the option of withdrawing on your credit or debit card. It would have been fine, if the service charges weren’t so much!

I however still use PayPal as my preferred method of payment. Luckily for me, I’ve got family in US and Europe and most of my purchases are online and so far they’ve all been investments into my freelancing business.

Isolated

Freelancing is lonely business anywhere, but here, it is more so. When I moved here, I had no family or friends. So when I got tired of working or was facing a mental block there was no place I could head out to.

Time Difference

This one’s my biggest peeve. Most of my clients are US based and the time difference is usually anywhere from 9-12 hours. Which means that my day is their night. I’m often working late into the night so that I can email/chat with clients promptly.

Weekend Woes

The weekend here comprises of Friday and Saturday while Sunday is a working day. Most clients work on Fri & Sat, and naturally think I do too. It’s not a big issue but it’s a problem if someone sends me urgent work.

While there are a few drawbacks to it, it’s not all bad. The biggest plus is that we’re working on our own terms and most of my clients don’t even care which part of the world I’m in as long as I deliver work on time.

As I’ve freelanced over the months, I’ve gotten around most of the drawbacks and it’s not so bothersome anymore. Stay tuned for a post about how I worked out a solution to these issues.

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Driverless Taxis to Debut in UAE

Driverless taxis

If you don’t know to drive, taking a cab is the next best option in UAE. Anyone who’s driven in cabs here (or anywhere else for that matter) knows that cab drivers aren’t the best drivers around. Sadly, most cab drivers can’t even make up for their lack of driving skills with their knowledge of the roads. So we’re stuck with hanging on to the seats for our lives, praying to whichever god we believe in to deliver us safely to our destination.

But there may be hope! UAE will be rolling out electric driverless pod-taxis in Masdar City – Abu Dhabi’s carbon free city. The first taxis will be used to transport students to Masdar Institute of Science and Technology. The taxis will be driverless, their maximum speed would be 40 kph and they’d be following a specific path like a train.

All that’s fine and dandy but how do you tell a cab where you want to go? Swiping a card doesn’t seem the answer. And with the history of bungling anything that needs to be done by the public (Remember the ID card appointment fiasco?) the UAE is notorious for coming up with technology that is not user friendly.

Even though the idea is very new age, when I think of a driverless taxis – I think I would take my chances with the crazy cab driver.

Sources: The National, Switched.

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The Two Most Expensive Things in Dubai

After moving here early last year, one thing became very clear. For all of Dubai’s branded glory – it wasn’t the excessive spending that was causing the holes in people’s pockets  but the real culprits were rent and education.

Gulf News had a news item today stating that according to the Income and Expenditure Survey carried out by the Ministry of Economy found that 53% of income is spent on food and rent. I’d say about 50% is all rent and the remaining 3% is spent of food. Sure the prices of food stuff has risen in the past four years but they are nothing in comparison to the rise in rents.

If you’ve got kids, education is the second thing that is most expensive here. Any savings you’ve got will be used in educating your kids.

@RegAthwal had an interesting tweet today.

“Expats in the UAE are thinking of sending their kids to boarding schools in the UK because it is cheaper now – Outsource your kids!!!”

An MBA costs anywhere from  AED 80 k and above if you want a degree from a decent and known university. Education opportunities in UAE are also very limited. If parents are indeed considering sending their children abroad for better education, then who can blame them?

Even though the property prices have fallen(25% according to the newspapers) due to the economic recession, there has been no change in rents except that they have stopped increasing. The problem however remains – people have a hard time finding a house that fits their need within their budget.

If you’re living in UAE, what are your two biggest expenses that take a huge chunk out of your income? And yes, credit card bills is a valid answer :)

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Ras-al-Khaimah’s Winter Surprise

Picture courtesy Gulf NewsRas al Khaimah woke up to see its Jebel Jais (mountain cluster situated 25km from Ras al Khaimah city at the height of 5700 feet) covered in snow. AnnGun’s song ‘Snow in the Sahara’ came to mind when I saw the picture in the front page of the paper. According to Gulf News, the snow started at 3 pm on friday afternoon and continued well into the night when the temperature dropped to -3 degrees.

Having been in Ras al Khaimah city that evening, I can tell you that the cold was unbelieveable! It was windy and it kept on drizzling continously. The drizzle turned to heavy rains as we made our way back to Sharjah at 9 30 pm. The rain turned to a drizzle only to pick again as we entered Sharjah.

Even though, snow in the desert is a novelty, RAK is no stranger to snow. It snowed four years ago too in 2004 and was a big attraction for everyone – locals, expats and tourists alike. Helicopters were flown to give people an aerial view and let them see the snow up close.

For more pictures, check out the slideshow at Gulf News.

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The View From My House.

Mosque in Sharjah

The view from my house in Sharjah. Mosques here are beautiful and even more beautifully lit. This is one of the countless mosques in Sharjah. The picture was taken at sunset.

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In Sharjah? Spend an Evening at Al Qasba

One of the first places I discovered after moving  to UAE was Al Qasba. It’s built around a canal and is known for holding various exhibitions, festivals and theatrical performances throughout the year. The place is a hub of activity in the evening.  A waterside  recreation area has always been a crowd puller and the lighting provides a festive look making it all the more inviting.

If you’re the kind of person who enjoys watching people, this place is for you. I saw kids going crazy with delight at being able to walk through the musical fountain. A child completely fascinated by the neon lights of the rides in the kid zone. An old couple resting in one of the many benches placed along the canal, holding hands. A young couple enjoying a quite moment and coffee in perfect sync while their toddler slept in her stroller. Since I am that kind of a person, I love the place. What’s even better? It’s at a walking distance from my home. Continue reading

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